DENIGRATING ATTIRE AND INDECENT EXPOSURE

At this juncture, I will like to ask a question. Have you ever asked or cared about the way people see you? Does your attire or appearance portray or identify you as a prostitute, twat, gentleman, clergy, thief, etc. If you can tell yourself the truth, examine the way you dress and answer the question. This question specifically goes to our youths, mostly girls. Don't you know that, the power in your attire always shouts along with you, telling people be sober truth about who you are?.

Some girls always ask themselves, " what is happening? Why is it that is only irresponsible men that come my way?, Some do ask, why is it that, it is only those that are not ready to settle down that usually come their way? Be it know to you that, it is what you sow you shall reap. Do to people what you will like them to do to you "golden rule". This reminds me of Igbo adage which say " o di ka o di kposa, o di ka o di azuru" meaning bird of the same feather flock together.

Sometimes, girls think that, boys are not sensible, but when comes marrying they will tell you that, there are friendship and marriageable materials. Then they will begin to look for a decent virgin. All this happen because you have denigrated yourself in the first place.

Do You think that, after planting cocoyam, during harvest, you will reap yam? Absolutely NO, in the first place, your tarty attire reveals you as a harlot, telling people that you are available for friendship and for pleasure. If the rat carelessly keeps itself, the cat will get him. Sometimes, girls are mostly mislead by their friends, forgetting what they are and where they come from.

The power of a woman, concentrates mainly on her body. What do you expected after exposing your body, which is your sacred temple and also the pride of your husband, to the public? Some do go out on the road naked, exposing their womanhood; bottom, breast, tummy, laps and waist. After exposing all these, what again remains? Nothing! Because he that have seen all these crucial parts of a woman body have seen almost the woman's nakedness. Do you expect a man of dignity to approach you?. Shut up! What you sow, you shall reap. A man that will come will be always your class, who do not not have respect for his manhood.

So, I urge you, wear a decent decorum; even if you are a lion in the attire of sheep keep on with your attire. It will portray you as a well mannered girl, such that any boy or man that thinks of coming your way will first of all think twice and take a look on his time, because you have commanded his respect and attest yourself a responsible lady. It also identifies you as a marriage material, that you are ready to settle down and could tackle the responsibility of household.

The kind of disrespect for boys whose mode of dressing is out of decorous tune is something very worrisome. There is no more need using mirror to check what is being worn by boys of this generation; a half-naked attire all in the named of sagging, with your unbuttoned shirt authentically qualifies or identifies you as an irresponsible man. Some people do not know that the mode of their attire can mark them out for arrest in case of any trouble.

Many "guys" have lost their lives due to their action while putting on questionable attires. You may run into a scene of emergency and unfortunately you are arrested by the  police. In the process of trying to force out the truth, an innocent man may be lethally wounded; this may sometimes result to death due to the accusation levelled against him, through the interpretation of his actions and attire.

Besides, attire can attract love, one of the way girls assess a boy is through his dressing. Sometimes, the power of your attire can bewitch a woman. Some people may be asking themselves, does it means that, I don't have money or that I'm not matured enough? Why is it that, thus girl doesn't accept me? Why did she love this poor boy more than me?.

Be you aware that, it may be your attire that is accusing you as an irresponsible and wayward man. It is true that the boy is poor, he is in peace with his attire and it extols his innocence. So, don't accuse him of using charm, because his ways of dressing have endeared him to the girl; telling how responsible and caring the boy may be, if she marries him. It is true that some are lions in sheep's coat, but it never disqualifies attire as one of the considered factors by a girl or a lady